Another tantrum? Ugh… try this.

Hey Reader!

Another tantrum? Another fit? Another meltdown? Ugh.

What now?

Prevention is always best: strong relationships, routines, and rhythms. But when meltdowns happen, try these 4 in-the-moment strategies:

1. Stay calm + carry on.
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Regulate yourself first. Kids’ upset triggers ours—your calm helps theirs.

2. Go low + slow.
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Get on their eye level. Slow your body. Slow your voice.

3. Feel the beat.
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The brain craves rhythm. Gentle rocking, tapping, or humming helps reset.

4. Take a break.
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Sometimes the child—or you—just needs space.

⚡ These won’t work every single time. But with consistency, they will work over time.

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Cheering you on this week!

-Your ECCN team

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